Bloggin' With Bitchass

OK, that's it!

Time for a little vent.

For the past two nights now, I've been getting some amount of abuse directed at me in the chatroom. It's all been focused on the fact that I have chosen to come into the room with Princess Grace's new name for me. Now I am pretty easy to get along with usually, and don't at all mind the normal jabs and insults that are done in a spirit of play. There's a fine line between playful insults and the mean-spirited type that I've gotten lately, and a couple of people have crossed that line. A few have even jumped hard over it with both feet.

Bottom line is this. If you have a gripe with me about something, do it privately, and not in the chatroom in front of everybody. If you do that, I will listen and respect your position, whether I agree with you or not. But if you attack me in the room, either under your own name or hiding behind a false name, you are not building up any friendly points with me and we will call it a day. I'm not gonna engage in any extended battles with you.

By resorting to personal attacks, you are doing a couple of things. You are completely disregarding my feelings, and trying to take something that makes me feel happy and turning it into something that's somehow bad. You are also not giving me much credit for being capable of independent thought. If you think that you are going to change my mind and make me conform to your views by using insults, forget it! You are just making me more determined.

What's even worse is that you are completely disrespecting Princess Grace, and I suspect sometimes trying to get to her through me, and I'm not going to put up with that. Princess is a good friend who I deeply care about, and by disrespecting her, you are really pissing me off! Keep it up and I will totally ignore you in the future.

I intend to continue coming into the chatroom as jem_takenbyPrincessG until Princess tells me to stop, which I hope she never does, or until I get kicked out of the room.

I'd like to thank the Mistresses and all my true friends who have congratulated me and been supportive. Feeling that from you all makes taking the occasional abuse worth it.

And, as always, thank you Princess Grace! Wuvs ya!!!!!

little bitchass